8th of March

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Hello:*, I want to wish to all the women a very sincere “Happy Birthday”, I really hope that this day finds you happy and fulfilled, I hope you forget about all your worries and that you feel strong and confident. I can’t say that today will be a easy one for me because before all, I see this day as Mothers Day and I still feel a great emptiness in my heart, even if my mother passed away more that 4 years ago. But I don’t want to make you sad, I just want to urge you to live every day in full and to forget about all prejudices and barriers and to feel GOOD, stop thinking things to much, stop comparing yourself to other women, all women are beautiful and special, we need to support each other more, life is to short for stupid problems.
If there is something I really hate, is bullying between women, the need to put a woman down because she is different or because she is too shy.
As easy as it is to hate, it’s as well as easy to love, you have to love yourself first, to find your own happiness and under any circumstances do not accept bullying from women or men. You are strong and confident, you need find and exteriorize that feeling.
(In middle school I can say that I was bullied by my classmates, not all the time and not by everyone, but sufficient enough to interiorize myself and loose my confidence, I was “too shy”, I wasn’t at “their level”, I didn’t have as much money or clothes as them and I wasn’t as interested in boys and makeup as them (ohh the joy of being in a high-end school). But I am glad that thing happened like they did because they made me so strong and I was so sick of others opinions, that I entered high school very nonchalant and I did things how I wanted them to be. I participated at a beauty pageant at school even though I didn’t saw myself as beautiful, but in some weird way I knew I was going to win….and I won. That moment changed my entire life. There is nothing that you can’t do, you just have to focus on YOU.)
So today, from all my heart, I wish you peace, to love yourself and I want you to know that nothing can stand in your way, nobody deserves to take the smile off your face:*.
Here you have some photos of me and Roxana from her wedding last year, it was a wonderful experience, she has such a beautiful soul, I am very grateful that she and her husband are in my life and that they gave me the honor of being their godmother. As she once said to me: “The godparents are the family that you choose to have”, she melted my heart.
Happy Birthday to Roxana and to all you beautiful women out there:) 
I love you!

Hello:*, vreau sa urez tuturor femeilor un sincer “La multi ani”, sper din suflet ca ziua asta sa va gaseasca fericite si implinite, sa uitati de griji si sa va simtiti puternice si in increzatoare. Ziua de azi nu pot sa zic ca va fi una usoara pentru mine pentru ca inainte de toate vad ziua de 8 Martie ca fiind a mamelor si eu inca simt un gol imens, chiar daca au trecut 4 ani de cand mama mea nu mai este printre noi. Dar nu vreau sa va intristez, vreau defapt sa va indemn sa traiti fiecare zi din plin, sa uitati de prejudecati si de bariere si sa va simtiti BINE, nu va mai ganditi prea mult la ce si cum faceti ca sa fie dupa “standarde”, nu va comparati niciodata cu alte femei, toate sunt frumoase si speciale, trebuie sa ne sustinem una pe alta mai mult, viata e prea scurta pentru probleme stupide.
Daca e sa urasc ceva foarte tare, este hartuirea intre femei, nevoia de a pune o femeie la pamant pentru ca e diferita sau pentru ca e timida.
Pe cat de usor este sa urasti pe cineva, este la tot la fel de usor sa iubesti, este necesar sa te iubesti pe tine in primul rand, sa iti gasesti fericirea, sa nu cumva sa accepti rautati nici din partea femeilor si nici din partea barbatilor. Esti puternica si increzatoare si trebuie sa gasesti in tine sentimentul si sa il exteriorizezi.
(In scoala, in clasele 5-8, pot sa spun ca am fost hartuita verbal/psihic de colegi, nu de toti si nu mereu, dar suficient cat sa ma interiorizez si sa imi pierd increderea in mine, eram “prea” timida, nu eram la “acelasi nivel”, nu aveam “tot atatia bani” ca ei sau nu eram atat de interesata de baieti si machiaj in clasa a 6-a ca restul fetelor (placerea de a fi intr-o scoala de fitze). Dar sincer ma bucur ca s-a intamplat asa pentru ca experientele alea m-au facut atat de puternica, eram atat de satula de criticile tuturor incat am intrat in liceu foarte nonsalanta, nu mi-a mai pasat de nimeni si nimic si am facut lucrurile asa cum am vrut eu sa le fac. Am participat la Miss Boboc in clasa a 9-a chiar daca nici pe departe nu ma vedeam frumoasa, dar intr-un fel am stiut ca voi castiga… si am castigat (si au urmat multe titluri si realizari dupa asta). Acel moment mi-a schimbat toata viata. Nu e nimic ce nu poti realiza daca te concentrezi doar la tine.)
Asa ca astazi va doresc din suflet sa aveti pace in suflet, sa va iubiti si sa stiti ca nimic nu va sta in cale, nimeni nu merita sa va fure zambetul de pe fata:*
Am pus niste poze de la nunta Roxanei de anul trecut, a fost o experienta superba, este un suflet minunat si sunt extrem de fericita ca ea si sotul ei sunt in viata mea si ca mi-au acordat onoarea de a le fi nasa. Dupa cum mi-a spus odata, “Nasii sunt familia pe care ti-o alegi”, foarte adevarat.
La multi ani Roxanei si tuturor femeilor frumoase de peste tot:)
Va iubesc!
 

2 thoughts on “8th of March

  1. Wow, you’re so gorgeous woman! You’re really beautiful on the outside (these photos are truly stunning!) and I believe that you’re even more beautiful on the inside. This was very inspirational post 🙂 It’s sad how many girls/women don’t see their own beauty and greatness. Even if someone says that you’re too fat, too ugly, too different, too weird, too poor, too stupid or too anything, that doesn’t mean that it’s the truth. Some people just try to build themselves up by tearing others down. I’ve learned that I don’t let anyone else’s opinion of me define me, not anymore. We all are enough just the way we are and that’s it.

    Btw, I want to say I’m so sorry for you mom. I’ve lost my daddy a three years ago and I still miss him so much everyday. So I think I can understand your empty and hard feelings quite well. Hugs to you ♥

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    1. First of all I am so sorry for your dad:(:*, I know it’s so hard to loose a parent, it’s never the right time to let go of them…and it will never be less painful, in fact as older as you get it only gets harder because you have to face all these new chapters in your life (marriage, kids, new job…) without them and it’s so so sad….. but be strong girl, focus on the people that need you and believe that one day our souls will meet again, loads of hugs&kisses to you:*.
      Thank you so so much for your loving words, they mean very much to me, it’s such a great feeling to have sincere love and appreciation for another women, from both ends:P, I think that true beauty stands in our soul and I hope that everyone finds the most important love of all, the one for themselves. All your good thoughts and feelings will only bring joy and happiness in your life:* stay positive. Thank you for being here:*

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