Blush

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Hello everyone :*, I just had my lunch and now I am going for a walk in the park with my boyfriend:) by the way…we are celebrating 10 years together this week, it’s so crazy how time just flies like that, he is such a sweet and great man, I am very lucky to have him. I feel like I hear all the time from boys and also girls that it’s getting harder and harder to be in a relationship, to find someone “for life”, but let me just tell you that I didn’t have the most amazing all pink and unicorns relationship, we got through some really tough times as a couple…we nearly broke up a couple of times, we argued most of the time…but I guess despite all those things we both knew that we wanted the same thing, to be together in the end. It’s very easy to let go, stop fighting for the relationship and start over, but I’ll tell you it’s much more easier on the long run to fight for what you already have (well if you know that it’s worth it, if the guy/girl is a jerk, just let them go as fast as you can). 
Most of the fights in relationships come from insecurities, so please be sure that first of all, you love yourself, you are confident and independent as a person and only then you are 100% happy and free minded, and it comes only natural that you will be happy in a couple with someone. I know it’s so hard to be confident these days….I know I sure have some demons in my mind that I have to fix and it’s a shame to spill my personal anger towards my boyfriend…but at least I admit my insecurities, I speak about them and I am ready to solve anything. Communication is the key to anything.
So I really hope that you are all happy and confident, and if not, be sure that some day you will, just focus on what you want and the Universe will give it to you. ❤ Give time some time, but be happy in the meantime;).
//Zara jeans, Adidas top, Missguided sandals, Quai sunglasses, Michael Kors jet set bag, Michael Kors watch

Salutare tuturor:*, abia ce mi-am terminat cina si acum ies cu iubitul meu la o plimbare:) apropo, saptamana aceasta implinim 10 ani de cand suntem impreuna, mi se pare o nebunie cum a trecut timpul asa de repede, e un barbat minunat si ma consider norocoasa sa il am. Aud tot mai des atat de la fete cat si de la baieti ca devine din ce in ce mai greu sa aiba o relatie de lunga durata sau sa gaseasca pe cineva cu care sa poata construi o viata impreuna, dar pot sa spun ca nici relatia mea nu a fost doar minunata si roz cu unicorni mereu, am trecut prin momente foarte grele…aproape ca ne-am despartit de cateva ori si ne-am certat destul de des…dar amandoi am stiut mereu ca in ciuda acestor lucruri amandoi vrem acelasi lucru, sa fim impreuna si sa mergem mai departe. E foarte usor sa zici ca o lasi balta si o iei de la capat cu altcineva, dar pot sa zic ca pe termen lung e mult mai usor sa continui sa lupti pentru ce ai deja (bineinteles daca persoana merita….ca daca simti doar pentru o clipa ca e parsiv si inselator…mai bine o lasi balta mai repede).
De cele mai multe ori certurile din relati provin de la nesiguranta personala, de la complexe, asa ca va rog mai intai sa va iubiti pe voi, sa fiti increzatori si independenti ca persoane, abia atunci poti fi cu adevarat fericit si deschis la minte si va veni natural sa poti fi fericit intr-o relatie cu cineva. Stiu ca e foarte greu sa fii sigur pe tine in zilele astea… stiu ca eu sigur am demonii mei cu care ma lupt inca si ar fii pacat sa imi vars mereu furia mea personala pe iubitul meu…dar e un lucru bun ca recunosc complexele mele, vorbesc despre ele si sunt pregatita sa rezolv orice. Comunicarea rezolva totul.
Asa ca sper din suflet sa fii feticit si increzator, iar daca nu, fii sigur ca intr-o zi vei fi, concentreaza-te asupra a ceea ce iti doresti si Universul eventual ti-l va da. ❤ Da-i timpului timp, dar fii fericit intre timp;)
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2 thoughts on “Blush

  1. Wow very nice look! And very wise words 🙂 I was in relationship about 7 years so I know what you are talking about. But last year my ex-boyfriend cheated on me and even though I love(d) him so much, I think I deserve something better. Happy 10th Anniversary day to you, I hope you’ll be happy together until the end ❤

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  2. Thank you very much for your sweet words and wishes. I am very sorry that you experienced a bad relationship, but don’t stress about it, I really believe that everything happens for a reason and every kick in the ass only makes us stronger and more wise. I am also very happy that you managed to end it, it’s a very tough thing to do…because most of us tend to get used to the routine and forgive the person that we are used to if you know what I mean…. so yeah, you deserve much more better than that;) be confident! Kisses ❤

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